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@samantha
Had a heart to heart with one of my besties tonight. It was late and we just started talking organically. I told her that she needs to appreciate her boyfriend more (in the nicest way possible). She has a lot of trauma from previous relationships so she is reluctant to show the fullest amount of love to her boyfriend. The boyfriend has enough patience, love, and is smart enough to know when she is showing her reluctance. Both her and boyfriend are really amazing people, great friends to me too. I lived with her in college and it was one of the best experiences I’ve had in my life. I was afraid this would tarnish my relationship with her, as I felt that maybe this could be a personal judgement, but she took it very well. It probably helps that I flew to another country for her and booked a nice excursion for us Friday 😛
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@serendipity
That’s sweet of you to do! I think mature grown people can take constructive criticism when they know it comes from a place of genuine love and concern.
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@triumph
things tend to not be as bad as we assume they will in our head🥲 but also i have a deep admiration and appreciation for the genuinely kind-but-tough-love friends. everyone would be better off surrounded by people like that
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@gusa
i imagined the whole scenario as if it was a movie. i don’t even know why, but the situation was inspiring lol thanks for sharing sam
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@teleyinex.eth
Friends are the ones that tell you what you don't want to hear.
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@ivy
awww
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@l3mbda
you’re a stellar friend, and I’m sure she knows it
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@tako-unik
Also you are a really good storyteller 🫶
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@tako-unik
This is what real friends are for. I think when friends start withholding their observations out of fear this is when friendships become superficial and more like a routine talk/meetup rather than a meaningful relationship
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@ideas
Always so important to bring things to the surface and the closer the friends the more open we should be. I am so glad you were able to express freely
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@n
This is the content I need from fc Congrats to you and them
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@aalamsy
That sounds genuine and heartfelt moment.. you really care of your friend and it shows. Hope y'all have best time friday.
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@zwillow
You’re a good friend, telling her what she needs to hear. She sounds amazing too, being so receptive to what you have to say.
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@anco
💯 I think it's better to be able to say thank you and I'm sorry, no matter how close the relationship is!!
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@jessyjeanne
it’s cute I think, you want the best for her and she’s probably understands. 💕
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