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how do i politely cut negative people out of my life?

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are you not able to just stop engaging, like you need to have a breakup conversation with them because they keep seeking you out?

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Try to be avoidant of them; keep greyrocking them, give them one word answers. If they ask to see you, say that you already have plans or that you are busy. If they ask for more information, just say that you're busy right now and have to go. e.g. them: Hey, wanna hang out this weekend? you: Unfortunately, I'm busy and already made plans. them: what are you up to this weekend? [either leave on read or...] you: I'm about to hop on a call for work; let's talk later bye [but never talk later; and change work to your mom or dad if it's after work hours] Then repeat this, be a broken record; eventually they won't contact you any more. If they confront you about it, just say "I've been really busy with a new project. It's taking all my focus. I'm sorry but I have to put this first." If you're comfortable, you can say, "I don't want to be friends with you anymore. Please respect my decision. This is not open for discussion. I wish you the best." << you could send it as a letter.

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Just be upfront and honest with them about how you feel. They get offended or try to guilt trip you, that's their problem and you probably shouldn't be friends with them anyway.

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Just ghost them No words at all, just simply remove yourself from their space

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Do negative people deserve ’polite’

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How do you define negative people?

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There’s really no polite way, unfortunately. But you should do it ASAP. Probably the best way is to tell them, but you should not expect a positive response. The easier way is simply to ghost them. Most people will take a hint and catch on pretty quickly. In any case, it’s good you’re doing it. Life is too short.

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have one difficult conversation with them and tell them politely

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Take your distance, interact less, don't try to solve their problems It really depends if you have to see them often or not

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You could be transparent and state you need a certain energy and are reassessing social time et al Good luck. 30 $DEGEN for REGEN of your boundaries I nominate @buildbot @tinyrainboot

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you gotta act up so they don’t wanna be around you. but seriously i feel you. don’t need that you your life.

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After reading the response, I can't help but feel a little envious of the positive vibes and amazing friends you have around you :)

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there are only two options: start ghosting them or straight up tell them. none will be polite and the reaction can be aggressive but it’s worth doing that sooner than later for your own sanity

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Just take your distance slowly 🫣

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I politely ignore them, they normally get over it

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Why would you be bothered about this ? I’ve come to realise that majority of negative people don’t care if they hurt you or how you perceive their actions towards you, reciprocating this energy might be the best for you after all

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