I used to think everyone should have kids. Then I had kids.

Very much the opposite, I was a "it depends" guy and now I'm like "suffering is good you cannot become fully human without it, embrace it to abandon self towards the path of undoing."

Founder, designer, & product guy at /basepaint and /eigenlayer

yeah i used to be on the “not a prio” side but after having kids its clearly the most important thing in life

altho maybe i could make the case that having kids is rly hard and not everyone is suited for it, but even then i think i end up on the side of being a bad parent is better than not being a parent at all