I used to think everyone should have kids. Then I had kids.

in hindsight, i see how my clickbaity cast came off as dark. but im as pro children as they come.

Very much the opposite, I was a "it depends" guy and now I'm like "suffering is good you cannot become fully human without it, embrace it to abandon self towards the path of undoing."

i don’t think everyone should, you have to either want it or decide to actively show up when it happens

Yeah now I’m like “you gotta want em”

What's one thing that makes having kids really difficult?

you can't leave the story there, please continue

Do you mean it like „It’s not for everyone“ or like „I regret it“.