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lambchopper
@lambchop
when i was 16 i got SA’d and crashed out so hard. i grabbed a skillet and beat my abuser to the point where he had to go to the hospital. almost caught a case overseas, however if i did not beat him he would’ve gotten away with 0 repercussions. this world protects abusers, and i refuse to abused. my mindset is: if you abuse me i will abuse you 1000000x harder remember ladies. men get away with a lot, it someone touches you do what you can to destroy them or the pain of them getting away with it will eat you alive. i have made the mistake of not standing up for myself before but i refuse to not defend myself in this sick world ever again. i look at most men like vermin that deserve 0 respect unless they’ve proven themselves, and im proud of myself for that mentality. do not give men benefits of doubt, protect yourself and always leave if you get the smallest feeling of danger. ⛔️
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Ivy
@ivy
i'm sorry that this happened to you and i really admire the strength you show on a daily basis
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Naomi
@naomiii
So sorry that happened to you and I admire your strength. I wish I'd have had similar when it happened to me... Unfortunately this reinforced the knowledge that abusers are getting away. At the same time it made me much smarter, and I've been very good at avoiding it ever happening again. It's still very sad so many of us go through these things and honestly makes me very angry.
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Panda 🐼
@ammelanoleuca
🫡🫡🫡 Fucking hate “not all men” men. When there’s a chance a man is a rapist, (even if it’s 1 in 10 - I don’t know the true number) then we’re gonna default to assuming you’re bad until you prove you aren’t (and even then I still never trust). Don’t be mad at us, be mad at those men with us. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56465.The_Gift_of_Fear
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dawufi
@dawufi
im really sorry this happened to you but also FUCKING GO OFF
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Marcela
@laursa.eth
thank you for being in this space sharing this kind of statement. we need more women like you. i'm sorry you went through this but i bet this guy was even sorry-er. Fuck him. And thank you once again for beating this mfer.
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Sine
@sinusoidalsnail
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Nona𐦍༘⋆
@nonaa.eth
This is the same mindset I have I refuse to be abused
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Mika
@100o111
Girl i am so sorry it happens to you I got my abuser into the mental hospital for some time, then he was fired from his job (i called them lmao) and now he is also wanted by the police so he just disappeared, i am abroad so idk what about it anymore i hope he killed himself. I hate men so much.
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agathedavray
@agathedavray.eth
To share my experience I wanted to defend myself from a SA and it didn't work. Stronger than me, he raped me While I agree that having the courage to stand up for yourself when a situation is inappropriate is a good reflex, sometimes it doesn't work. That doesn't make you weak These assholes can be very clever The best protection is to be clear about what is acceptable and what is not, and then to accept that the guilty party is always and will always be the perpetrator of the violence. You can then rebuild your life …
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Atcamo🍄⌐◨-◨
@atcamo
I totally agree, it's better to be defensive than confident. I know of men who abused men and women and had no consequences, if someone tries to do something they don't want in any way it is not just about defending themselves but attacking the aggressor.
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gasaliⓂ️🎭🎩⚡️
@mutified1
Alhamdulilah you stood up for yourself, nobody will do that for you, we live in a world where men are praised for their stupidity. When they know you can fight for yourself they call themselves to order.
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