I think one of the reasons many people can’t act kindly or clearly is because there’s something they won’t forgive themselves for, consciously or not

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Yeah, heard the phrase the other day “expectations are basically aggressive,” kind of relates to how irritation is often lack of control etc

also, maybe related, most of the time, when people feel irritated, the source of their irritation actually lies within themselves (although external factors can contribute to irritation too of course)

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Yeah totally: eating a tub of ice cream is not a thing I have to acknowledge or forgive myself for because others are doing it too

Funny how much of it is a resistance-to-acceptance-and-forgiveness economy

Flip case also true. Acting too indulgently towards others because they’ve self-indulged too much. Shadows and projections are everywhere.

“Of course you can eat a whole tub of ice-cream; I just ate a tub myself”

Going too easy on yourself or others is also a thing. Forgiving yourself is a special case. Limit case: unrepentant killers condoning others killing.

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