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arfonzo
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Sending some holiday cuteness: Shadow and Heathcliff... so sweet when they clean each other. 🥹
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kanisupi🥔🔥👨🦲
@kanisupi
Hello! My wife's cat, who was with her for 24 years (a long life!), has passed away. She is heartbroken. I don't know what to say to her😭
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arfonzo
@arfonzo
I'm so sorry to hear that. It's certainly a long time, and cats are members of the family to many of us. I'd just be there with her, make sure she knows what a special cat they were, and how they will always be remembered as part of the family. I imagine it'll take a while for that pain to go away. I know that I would be devastated. 🙏😭 In time, maybe she would open her heart up to another cat? Not to replace her old friend, but as a new relationship. Best of luck my frenpai. 💜😿
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kanisupi🥔🔥👨🦲
@kanisupi
Hello friends! My wife lost her cat and is totally depressed. She has been to a psychiatrist.😿 I will be there for her for many years to come. Thank you for listening. Oh yeah, I read your post about power badges a while back! That was a very good post.Good day!
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arfonzo
@arfonzo
Thank you for the update frenpai! 🙏😿 If a psychiatrist helps her to deal with the grief, I think that's a great thing to do. I hope that she will get over his death soon, but I can understand how the loss could totally devastate someone. I feel my cats are part of my family, and I would feel their loss like a human death. It's not something that you can get over in a day, week, or even months. Healing will take time. She is lucky to have you by her side. 💜 (And thank you for mentioning the PB article, it was a long time ago, and everything has changed since then, but I'm so glad you liked it!)
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