I think the “Farcaster is too nice” take stems from a confusion of thoughtfulness for niceness, and the clear dearth of both on the bird app.

BDFL of Quilibrium, Eng @ Farcaster, ex-Coinbase, always opinionated, never hydrated

/quilibrium

Yeah if you think about how you chat idly with people in line at a grocery store no one would call it “too nice” …just normal. 
The asshole online personas are just reality tv cosplay. To be one way in real life and another way online is obviously inauthentic on one side of the coin. Be the same everywhere.

Life is but a Kabuki theater and we are all the actors