my good friend is a 44 and a doctor of like 15 years and I asked him “what do most people regret on their deathbed?” 

they regret working so much and not spending enough time with loved ones

this checks out based on an Australian nurse’s book that she on the most common regrets she had heard

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dunno if that makes sense to use to inform your life. Perception isn‘t reality and we are exceptionally weak at reflecting accurately. So maybe you never worked hard but still regret to having worked hard. I don‘t trust this