I think I’m starting to see where we went wrong as a species the last 100yrs or so by the decisions we’ve made between work and family.

living in my era of unknowns, "world builder"

🟪 #173 | ⌐◨-◨  | Test everything; retain what is good.  

The constraints of time that work places, pushes a family into an unnatural state, causing pressures unnatural to a family structure, causing the modern problems families face today.

No singular blame, just consequences of decisions.

Happy to expand, this is really a big thesis to unpack.

It’s because individual humans are no longer the apex organism. Human societies are. Societies are living things and preservation of the larger organism evolves to become paramount over the concerns of lesser components, whether individuals, families, tribes, towns, etc. 

Not a value stmt, just the way life evolves.