I think I’m starting to see where we went wrong as a species the last 100yrs or so by the decisions we’ve made between work and family.

living in my era of unknowns, "world builder"

take this a step further.

The bundling of post-industrial world fractured the skillsets that normally held a family together preventing them from working with each other more fluidly. 

Causing choices that put max pressure on individual attribution, husband vs. wife dynamics, and generational, instead of a family.

🟪 #173 | ⌐◨-◨  | Test everything; retain what is good.  

The constraints of time that work places, pushes a family into an unnatural state, causing pressures unnatural to a family structure, causing the modern problems families face today.

No singular blame, just consequences of decisions.

Happy to expand, this is really a big thesis to unpack.

I’ve been fascinated how the agrarian revolution created the men work and women child rear dynamic…plowing increased miscarriage rate…subsequent tech revolutions have closed the physiological gap but we’ve yet to close the spiritual gap.

our species evolved to suffer.. we are _supposed to be_ struggling all the time.. to find food and defend our group, etc.. but most of us Westerners don't have to do that anymore, and it manifests as a blanket of anxiety in the back of our minds.  check out the book Tribe if you haven't