You should, as a man, strive to have a partner so desirable that all your peers would rather have her than their own wives. 

However

You must then, as a man, also have the confidence to know that they can’t have her, because she is yours. 

Rivelino

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Wat

Be with someone you love. Not someone that makes other jealous. 

Stop putting so much stock into what others think of you. 

Pretty weird mindset tbh. 

The desirability of your partner by others is probably one of the worst factors to consider when getting married. 