Finding friends in a different city while doing a remote job is so hard. It feels so sad to be out of my home for 3 years and not having anyone whom I can lean on or even access for 2 seconds to share what I think I should cook today

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I think the atmosphere in cafes are quite reserved here. I've tried joining a women's walking group on Sundays, but it hasn't felt like a good fit. The conversations I have there don't seem to blossom into meaningful friendships, and I don't want to push for something that doesn't come naturally.

It's conflicting intentional relations or natural connections? 

Friendships i believe should be seamless and should be natural. You shouldn't even think or feel you're in the process of becoming friends and bam one day you share a couple of drinks and talk about how you out of all people became friends

can you go and work from cafes? idk what its like in india but i made a lot of friends going to cafes / coffee shops and doing work

I feel you! Not in the literal situational sense but the crux of making friends as an adult that you can have reciprocity with and vibe with in a meaningful way, so hardddd!