eulerlagrange

I’m always skeptical when men say their wives shaped who they are.

Did she affect who you are professionally, or are we talking family man Dan?

Alright @dwr.eth you win this one. I’ve now realized it’s probably better to get married before you become a founder.

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/eulerlagrange

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, IMO. How much you value your partner’s contribution—whether it’s personal growth, professional development, or both—is something only you can measure. Relationships are inherently complex, and the influence of a partner can manifest in countless ways, some subtle and others transformative. It’s not just about how they affect the ‘family man’ or ‘professional you,’ but how their presence shapes the way you view the world, make decisions, and navigate challenges. A partner’s influence can be profound even in areas they aren’t directly involved in, because the emotional support, inspiration, or even constructive criticism they provide impacts the entirety of who you are. At the end of the day, whether you choose to credit them openly or carry their influence quietly, the weight of that contribution is deeply personal and unique to every relationship. My two cents…