Sam (crazy candle person) ✦
@samantha
Had a heart to heart with one of my besties tonight. It was late and we just started talking organically. I told her that she needs to appreciate her boyfriend more (in the nicest way possible). She has a lot of trauma from previous relationships so she is reluctant to show the fullest amount of love to her boyfriend. The boyfriend has enough patience, love, and is smart enough to know when she is showing her reluctance. Both her and boyfriend are really amazing people, great friends to me too. I lived with her in college and it was one of the best experiences I’ve had in my life. I was afraid this would tarnish my relationship with her, as I felt that maybe this could be a personal judgement, but she took it very well. It probably helps that I flew to another country for her and booked a nice excursion for us Friday 😛
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@gusa
i imagined the whole scenario as if it was a movie. i don’t even know why, but the situation was inspiring lol thanks for sharing sam
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Sam (crazy candle person) ✦
@samantha
Earlier today I told the boyfriend that I felt that she was too hard on him too. He started laughing a lot, I felt he was about to cry. He reassured me that she was just worried about him, but it runs deeper than that. Privately to me she’s had a bit of grief with him. But when I actually spent time with him, I can see that this grief she is feeling is unfounded. And I would hate for her to miss out a better, greater love with her boyfriend.
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