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tldr (tim reilly)
@tldr
I am beginning to believe that this may be the BIGGEST difference in types of humans: People who are honest with themselves vs. People who lie to themselves This isn't even related to intelligence (although very wise people seem to be honest with themselves more frequently, bc they realize the truth will always come out, with enough time). We usually define "honest" as "honest toward others". But actually, the really critical thing is whether you are honest with yourself. And in any case: If you are not honest with yourself, you can not be honest with others – except by chance.
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Rafi
@rafi
I find that people who are smart and lack wisdom are prone to dishonesty towards themselves. Very dangerous position to be in for themselves and others. Folks tend to build a life around such people which can lead to disastrous consequences. I've seen it so many times happening to others and I'm always amazed how folks actively seek out confidence in overly-confident people. It's like offshoring own's life to others.
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Rafi
@rafi
The most admirable people I know do not look confident on the surface. They voice their doubts and rarely speak with conviction. When they act, however, they act with full confidence. Type of confidence that doesn't scream Truth but Responsibility: > That's the path I've taken and I will handle all the consequences that come with it.
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