I am frustrated as hell. 
Not to give too much detail to a rage post, but I was given a cheap(sub-$400 in 2022) laptop in 2023, by someone who knew I already had a cheap laptop and was trying to fix my $2k+ beast desktop for media production. I refused several times, making sure it could afford to give it up. Over nine months later, it was apparently a loaner despite no previous language of "I want it back later" or "lend", "loan", etc, and the fact that I had to pay to get it here and put labor and nominal parts cost into it to get it working on my end. 

Why should I have to update people on the status of gifts I sold to meet the specified purpose of getting my desktop back online?

The only problem is externality pricing.

Building https://negationgame.com

!? That’s so dysfunctional those are not real friends I’m so sorry

I am so upset too because unrelated friendships seem to be hinging on replacing it when I have proof that “lending” was never communicated and I am a teacher so I don’t get paid until mid September.