One of the most frustrating things is seeing someone's ENS and wanting to reach out to them but having no means of actually doing so.

Pasting the ENS into FC/Twitter/Telegram sometimes works but otherwise its just a dead end connection.

What's the latest on onchain messaging and how to "DM" someone to their wallet?

Onchain is the new online - FID 206 -  cooprecords.xyz

Haven’t used it in a while but Coinbase wallet messaging (via xmtp I think) has worked for me before, not sure what it’s like on the receiving end for cold outreach, but I was 1 for 1