adrienne
@adrienne
On a scale of 1-10, how judgy do you think you are of other people? And do you consciously try to judge less?
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Arjan | That Poetry Guy
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I might be about a 4. Sometimes, in my head, still very judgy. But, I have been trying, successfully, to judge less. Mostly because it makes my life easier and less stressful. But also because being judgy is about measuring people against your norms and values, and the biggest question then is: what makes those the most valid norms and values? Why are they better than those of others? So, if I leave others be, I don't have to worry about all that.
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adrienne
@adrienne
well said
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