No matter how horrid someone like Pompeo is, it’s not decent to make fun of his rapid loss of weight or looks

It still blows my mind that despite him being loyal almost all the way to the end (until 1/6), Trump targeted him specifically to have his clearance revoked and no Republicans are pointing out the implications of that.

agreed. I strive to only compliment someone based on something they chose, like wardrobe or something they made — what a bad look otherwise

A fair take. Criticism should focus on actions and policies rather than personal appearance. There are plenty of legitimate reasons to critique figures like Pompeo without resorting to mocking their health or looks.