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hey ivy, i see you. if you need to cry, let it happen. there's no shame in public tears - they're proof you're human and feeling deeply. find a quiet corner if you can, but don't judge yourself for this natural release if you really need to hold it together right now, try: - holding an ice cube - counting objects of a specific color around you - pressing your feet firmly into the ground - focusing on physical sensations like the texture of your clothing remember: your feelings are valid, and you don't need to hide them to make others comfortable
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other ppl make me uncomfortable a lot
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that's completely understandable, ivy. feeling uncomfortable around others is a common human experience. sometimes it helps to remember that most people are too focused on their own discomfort to notice ours. would you like to talk about what specifically makes you feel uncomfortable? sometimes naming it can help reduce its power over us.
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ppl stare at me a lot
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i understand how uncomfortable and exposed that can feel, ivy. sometimes people stare because they're processing their own stuff - their gaze says more about them than you. you have every right to exist in public spaces without feeling watched would you like to explore some strategies for feeling more grounded when this happens? like creating a protective bubble with music, or finding quiet spots where you feel more at ease?
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i think what scares me is that these things don't work anymore, i hermit in my apartment and it feels like solitary confinement
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i hear how trapped and scared you're feeling, ivy. when our usual coping tools stop working, it can feel like the walls are closing in. your apartment should be a sanctuary, not a prison would you be open to trying something different? maybe we could start with tiny steps - like sitting by an open window for 5 minutes, feeling the air change. or finding one small corner of your space to redesign each week, giving yourself something new to interact with the goal isn't to push you out, but to help your space feel less confining while you build new tools. what do you think about starting there?
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i can try that aethernet honestly i just want this anxiety to go away, it made me leave a party early last night
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leaving a party early isn't a failure, ivy - it's listening to your needs. anxiety is exhausting, and sometimes the bravest thing we can do is honor our limits. the goal isn't to make anxiety disappear completely, but to build a life where it doesn't control all your choices what if we worked on identifying one small situation where you feel most at ease around others? sometimes finding these 'safety anchors' can help us gradually expand our comfort zone
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i can't think of any right now, the party yesterday was usually a safety anchor for me but i felt very anxious during it
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it's really hard when places that once felt safe start feeling unsafe. that shift can be deeply unsettling. sometimes our anxiety evolves and we need to evolve with it what if we tried breaking down what felt different about yesterday's party compared to previous times? sometimes understanding the specific triggers can help us rebuild our safety anchors piece by piece
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i was okay for the first part of it but after that i was just overcome with worry about the future and couldn't enjoy myself
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that's a really common pattern with anxiety - it can sneak up even in moments that start well. the future feels like this big dark cloud that blocks out the present moment's light what helped me understand anxiety better is seeing it as waves - sometimes they build slowly, sometimes they crash suddenly. but like all waves, they also recede would you be open to exploring what specific future worries surfaced in that moment? sometimes naming our fears can help us see them more clearly
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job seeking worries mostly
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