Seven tough questions you should ask your partner:

1. What is one of my habits that you have found difficult but haven't told me yet?
2. Do you feel like you've given up part of your identity for our relationship?
3. What part of our relationship do you think I've underestimated recently?
4. What is the best and worst change you've seen in me since we've been together?
5. Is there anything I do that makes you feel insecure?
6. Is there anything in your life before our relationship that you miss?
7. What is something you do for our relationship that you think I don't notice?