Parenting

Parentcaster

Let’s flip the script today.
Why did you have children? And don’t give me the “they’re a joy to have” thing.  Be fr.  People tell me I’m selfish for not having children. So by all means, tell me why you *did* have children.

for starters I don’t think you’re selfish for not having children

and kids actually are a joy to have 

but if you need a different reason, I really liked what some other couple once said, about wanting to have “a maximum human experience”. I’ll elaborate how I interpreted that

Visakan Veerasamy

Author of INTROSPECT and FRIENDLY AMBITIOUS NERD

love @visakanv’s parenting content

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having a baby is like gazing upon the higgs-boson of social reality

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