The “How much should people work?” meme is enduring because it’s a mirror that triggers rationalization for the reader’s own choices.

Opt out of the frame! Choose the life you want and then optimize for that. No more arguments necessary.

It's the lack of sympathy that triggered me more than anything. The people responding, "that's nothing, X, Y and Z have it so much harder." X, Y, and Z would also have a lot of sympathy for this girl you armchair psycho.

It's also a deeper comment on inflation. The worsening tradeoffs become more obvious at the bottom