erica
@erica
why am i attracted to people who look like they'll ruin my life
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Ghost 🎩
@ghostbo4.eth
I heard women fall in love with those who don’t care about them Is it true?
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erica
@erica
what a savage generalization on an entire gender
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Syed Shah🏴☠️🌊
@syed
Id phrase it as woman fall in love with those who don’t need them. Wanted good, needed bad. Probably something to do with provider/reliability instincts. Idk 🤷♂️
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erica
@erica
or we can just say people fall in love with people who meet their needs, whether they are healthy or unhealthy
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Syed Shah🏴☠️🌊
@syed
Boooooo. Let’s make vast generalizations and say them as facts. I’m not addicted to social media because of the healthy dialogue. I want to argue perspectives as facts.
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erica
@erica
lmao i never said it was a fact, just that it was another generalization we can say that doesn't depend on gender folks seem to forget that there are queer women also, so how does the provider/care taker dynamic play in there if both have been socialized to be attracted to a provider role?
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Syed Shah🏴☠️🌊
@syed
Wait you’re misunderstanding my troll post. I’m the one saying perspectives as facts. I’m the one saying vast generalizations as facts. But it’s an interesting discussion. Masculine feminine doesn’t need to be the same thing as biological gender. So wouldn’t change the dynamics as I understand them.
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erica
@erica
i'm so tired syed
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erica
@erica
I thought you were trolling at first so I said a vaster generalization as fact and then I lost the plot with your second comment 😂 But yeah that’s more what I think - it’s not biological sex it’s more how we’re socialized and raised, and gender does play a big role in that
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