anon
@superanon
A while ago, I matched w/ a girl from Tinder and we went out 2 hours later for Sushi. She was married and poly. Husband had been on the dating apps for weeks with no dates (normal women don't want to go out with married/poly guy). She downloaded tinder, I was one of the first people she swiped with, and we went on a date within hours. I met her husband eventually (after having sex w/ girl a lot). Very weird. She was cool tho https://x.com/CeraGibson/status/1892988560963215849
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Vera Faye
@verafaye
I’d wager to say women are typically better equipped (some, not all) to handle the emotional intelligence of having polyamorous relationships existing in relationships to themselves. we are taught early that our survival is dependent on the group of individuals we have surrounding us. so we learn to effectively communicate to the best of our abilities very quickly and efficiently. and a lot of us really enjoy ethical diversity and individual sovereignty. (it’s an alignment choice, not every woman is great at polyamory - it’s a constantly evolving process on multiple levels) I think if these men ethically practiced emotional intelligence, they would experience a positive shift from women who would be interested in polyamorous relationships with them. it’s inherently trust based. if the person (either and any expression combination of identity relation) doesn’t inherently trust themselves, they won’t inspire trust in others. 🫶🏻
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