It’s possible to be the secondary victim of an unacknowledged abuser through unhealed trauma in the abusee.

I’ve started to understand my life trajectory as being impacted by an “Abuser X.” I’ve choked on too much smoke for there not to be a fire. The fire doesn’t need a name.

It’s like the asteroid impact that ended the dinosaurs. I need to understand why I emerged in a lineage with entire types of wellness extinct.

Chocolate rainmaker. Singer. Thinker. Voice

Hi. I saw and read this earlier today. And throughout the day, that last sentence keeps popping back into my head. I want to thank you for so perfectly articulating that thought. The way you have written it here is really helpful to me. Thanks.