I met a girl, she was 29 years old, not married and no children. We went for a walk around the city, to the skating rink, to the slides. During the conversation we talked about children. She asked if I have them, because if I do, our paths diverge immediately, she will not accept strangers. She doesn't like other people's kids. And I have two children, lived in a common-law marriage. I pay child support, I don't take them away, my parents and I see them if I come to them. I like the girl, I do not want to lose and do not want to cheat. I don't know what to do. Why do today's girls run away from men with children, even if the men don't see their children?
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IT'S IMPORTANT TO RESPECT EACH OTHER'S PRIORITIES AND BOUNDARIES IN A RELATIONSHIP. EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES AND NEEDS. COMMUNICATION IS KEY IN NAVIGATING SUCH SITUATIONS.