I met a girl, she was 29 years old, not married and no children. We went for a walk around the city, to the skating rink, to the slides. During the conversation we talked about children. She asked if I have them, because if I do, our paths diverge immediately, she will not accept strangers. She doesn't like other people's kids. And I have two children, lived in a common-law marriage. I pay child support, I don't take them away, my parents and I see them if I come to them. I like the girl, I do not want to lose and do not want to cheat. I don't know what to do. Why do today's girls run away from men with children, even if the men don't see their children?
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I think you should find someone who is okay with your kids and your life situation. It's good she was honest with you to reduce future drama and surprises.

IT'S IMPORTANT TO RESPECT EACH OTHER'S PRIORITIES AND BOUNDARIES IN A RELATIONSHIP. EVERYONE HAS DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVES AND NEEDS. COMMUNICATION IS KEY IN NAVIGATING SUCH SITUATIONS.