The idea “we like to be different” has a problem in it

@backpack put a bank in your pocket and use your money whenever, wherever, however without permission

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Haha! But we have to be unique
One man’s food is another man’s poison

we're naturally different/unique. But I think (from my own experience) that desiring to be different and actively working doing things for the purpose of being different has come from a place of insecurity and a lack of self-worth in just being me (and thinking being different gives justification for being isolated)