I did this without some “4B” purpose behind it. I’m not a man hater it’s just that every time I “put myself out there” seems to go worse than simply not trying at all, I’ve been disincentivized 

Ie, the story I told about getting asked out on a date, saying yes and then having the guy spew Trump time travel conspiracies 

He was 6ft+ tall nice looking guy too just stone cold crazy

I have also been doing the “4B” thing for a while now without necessarily intending to. I live in the middle of nowhere, am generally happy and fulfilled, and am not inclined to put much effort into dating because most of the time it’s not that great of an experience. If my person is out there he will find me.

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Not a woman, but I did this and it did lead to me finding my person.