Lefteris Karapetsas
@lefteris.eth
In a bit of a different feel than my other posts. I have a sort of rhetorical question? Anyone out there have any encouraging words/experience for people who separate after a long relationship with a kid in the middle? Do anti-social nerds get another chance at "love"? On the kid side ... how do separated parents try to shield the kid so it keeps living a normal life when both parents separate amicably and both love the kid more than anything in the world? Curious to hear if any people have experience here. Asking .. ehm ... for a friend 😢
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DV (insert a lot of emojis)
@degenveteran.eth
My situation isn't identical but. I was with someone while I was in the military. She left me after I signed a 6 year reenlistment contract with the military. Regardless of how good or bad the situation with the child you share... The way YOU act should always be the same... I no longer have a relationship with 3 of my children...Despite doing everything right for the children... She was the bad side of things... But... The focus should always be the same... What's best for the children... If you want to video chat hit up my DC's and we can discuss in a better way. This would also be good for me as well...
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Lefteris Karapetsas
@lefteris.eth
The focus should always be the children yes, but we also should be happy so that the children can be happy. Or at least I think so. Sucks to hear about your situation too. Sounds really painful.
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@degenveteran.eth
Life has given me hurdles which I've overcome. Prepping me for things that are harder. The beginning was how it was "supposed" to happen. The longer that lasts the better... My wife has a similar story to yours as our oldest is biologically not mine. They had a healthy relationship until we got pregnant with our own... Then he changed... So... I'm saying this because guys and girls can both be at fault for the "why" we changed. Will you two be living close? Child will be going to the same school etc? I think the best advice I can say is stay close.. location wise...
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