dating

i’m over my exes but keep canceling dates out of anxiety

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I been single for 2 1/2 years ish and been on a few dates. 
Idk. 
I get anxiety too. Especially when I know im out somewhere and I should ask a girl out then I never do because I like to be mindful and respectful.
Always regret it.
But spending a lot of alone time definitely doesn’t help this.
Just seeing you cast this made me think about this again.
I been trying not to.
I hope you find a way past your anxiety so you can enjoy yourself.

green flag: the person who makes you feel safe vs anxious

I think it would help if you did “lower stakes” dates like instead of dinner or drinks try just coffee or something low key so there’s less pressure