help. this guy is very clearly flirting with me and i don’t know how to act bc this has never happened to me before. how do humans behave in situations like this. where do my brain cells go when i need them.

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Candid comment. I always struggled with flirting too.

It’s like I need to convey that I’m sexually interested in you, in a light hearted and funny way, that also has plausible deniability and doesn’t come off as gross or crude. Feels like juggling 3 different random objects of different weights and sizes.

Very happy to be in a committed long term relationship. 😳

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lol that’s how Chat GPT essentially defines it.

“Flirting is a form of social interaction where someone expresses romantic or sexual interest in another person—often in a playful, subtle, or suggestive way—without explicitly stating it. It can involve body language (like smiling, touching, or eye contact), teasing, compliments, or witty banter.

At its core, flirting is about signaling attraction while keeping things light enough that either person can gracefully back out if the interest isn’t mutual.”

holllllld up. wait what. that’s what you convey. no i do not want to convey that. i just replied with 3 pepe memes(?) because i did not know what to say. 😭

aw i’m happy you’re happy:)