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Jorge Pablo Franetovic 🎩
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for soon-to-be fathers (especially first timers): 1. it is impossible to not make mistakes. you are not perfect. your kid will have traumas. and that is perfectly fine. instead of avoiding them having traumas (which you can’t control), focus on healing -becoming consciously aware of- yours (which you can control). 2. the important part of the equation is the mother. focus your energy on providing what she needs to tap into the -mostly forgotten- innate and natural motherhood wisdom that is inherent in being woman. at the core of her being, she knows what to do. there is an intuition that is hidden behind layers of insecurities and fear. your mission is to help her feel safe, so that she can tap into that 3. reach out with vulnerability, expressing your own insecurities (especially to other men). the meme of “men don’t cry” is the most stupid invention of humanity 4. remember how to play, and practice that daily 5. buy stretch marks cream and rub her belly every night with tenderness what else?
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Jorge Pablo Franetovic 🎩
@jpfraneto.eth
6. before the baby is born, cherish every moment that the two of you have together. soon, you will never ever be the two of you again, and that is so fundamentally different that it is hard to miss. have fun. smile. make love. give each other love your baby is feeling every second of it
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Giancarlo🎩
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7. remember your kid will absorb what he sees and not necessarily what you say. Understand how much of an example you are to them. Be it in terms of what you say, what you eat, how you treat others…take the opportunity of parenthood to be the best version of yourself as it will be the model they will use. But don’t try to be perfect. There is no such thing and you don’t need to carry that kind of pressure. And it’s ok.
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