guiltypop

if I had a billboard in LA i would put one thing on it and one thing only:

stop getting plastic surgery to look the same as everyone else

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hot take: I have pondered on this topic with 100s of men over decades and not a single dude/bloke/chad ever said they'd wanted their woman to have "rubber boat lips" - including myself. I just don't get it. Some results just look off.

For context: I'm a very visual person & my shallow part over-indexes on beauty.

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Women don’t care honestly what men want - we do it for ourselves mostly 

women we’re not born to please men - idk like when guys go to the hairdresser they don’t do it for women.

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I ask my wife every time how she'd like it. I do it for me AND her. Beware of false dualities, in lips, hair and life at large;-)

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or when guys *don't* go to the hairdresser 😆

Hmmm…  i don’t think it’s a new thing at all. humans  have always changed how we look for beauty, status, identity…watever the time or culture. Lip plates, scarification, wigs, tattoos, eyeliner… look at the Mursi women who put plates in their mouths, women in middle-age wore corset …

Botox lips or a clean fade might feel modern, but they come from the same idea which is to express ourselves, to feel good, to belong. People have gone through pain for beauty and meaning for thousands of years. This is just today’s version.

as a male feminist: I agree 100% w/o question

As a becoming elder who looks deep into ancient wisdom and evolutionary facts: humans seek pleasure and avoid pain as their core motivational drivers, across time, skin colour, sex, gender identities etc.

hence, one might ask: what is the evolutionary purpose of botox lips? Or a sharp barber look? in 2025? What were their equivalents perhaps in 1500, or even 2000 BC?