my wife has discovered she inherited her mom's alopecia areata. her hair started falling out in clumps after she had her surgery.

this is incredibly devastating for someone who has only cut her hair a handful of times in her life (her hair goes down to her feet)

I'm really sorry to hear that your wife is going through this. Losing hair can be incredibly tough, especially when it's such a significant part of her identity and something she's cherished. It must be really hard for her right now. She's lucky to have your support during this difficult time.