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@laursa.eth
What would be the most valuable advice you could give a young woman? Me: Choose your battles wisely, because as a woman there are already some battles you can’t run from.
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Me: Don't let excessive propaganda and opinions cause you to see all men as your enemies. This will affect your relationships with men. All of them are "strangers" to you until you get to know them, not "enemies"!
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@laursa.eth
I am sorry to disagree hadi. I would rather teach a girl that all men are enemies unless proven otherwise than let any other woman get hurt bc she trusted so much… Unfortunately we are all victims in potential and men are always aggressors in potential, it is what it is, I also wish it was different
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Unfortunately, the statistics of men's violence are so high that I agree with your words, but my words were about getting to know someone and having a relationship. That is, when a woman wants to get to know a man or have a relationship with him, whether emotionally or professionally, in your opinion, when she sees the man as an enemy, can she give him a chance to prove himself for friendship or relationship or collaboration? Can people even communicate with their mental enemies? But if she looks at him as a stranger (even a stranger who may be bad), don't you think this problem will be solved? The difference between these two views is in the conclusion, that is, I concluded before I got in touch with a woman and got to know her that this person, for example, is a bad person.
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@laursa.eth
Ok let's split it in parts! Yes, when it comes to getting to know someone and having a relationship someone must be open to know the other part or it shouldn't even start. The problem is that people try to do it nowadays without even being friends first, which raises safety concerns. To be honest, I believe a woman can give men a shot to prove themselves even if she sees them as POTENTIAL enemies, and not actual enemies. But, instead of taking few times to change her mind, it will take lots. I am speaking of a rather defensive and not offensive perspective! It's about raising walls and not bursting someone else's. Unfortunately for some of us this isn't a mediatic question, this is an experience consequence. For example. I've read once a case of a woman who helped a homeless guy and gave him food. He followed her home and raped her because "he wanted to feel her kindness". If she had been a bit more defensive maybe she could've thought this could happen and avoided it. Not saying it was her fault tho.
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I agree with all your words, I wish there were many such discussions and led to dialogue between women and men. At least it increased awareness that a man knows how women look at him and their behavior and vice versa.
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This would be very useful. But it changes so much between countries.. I felt much more comfy with american men than I feel with brazilian men
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