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most people struggle to think of themselves as kind, brave, sincere, creative, artists etc — if not told so by someone else

it's so easy to help them out; if you see something in someone you want to see more of, just tell them

compliment the change you want to see in the world

Well said. It's a kindness to let people know they're seen and appreciated, as long as the compliments are sincere and you're mindful of how they're received.

Also important to remember that most people can tell the difference between genuine appreciation and idle flattery or manipulative social climbing.

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yes, very important amendment: the difference between sincerity and flattery makes or breaks this point