Philosopher: This is a very important point. Is it to establish a vertical relationship? Or establish a horizontal relationship? This is a lifestyle problem. People are not flexible enough to improvise and use their own lifestyle separately, mainly because "it is impossible to be equal to this person, because they have a hierarchical relationship with this person".

Youth: Do you mean that you can only choose one of vertical and horizontal relationships?

Philosopher: Yes. If you establish a vertical relationship with someone, you will unconsciously grasp all interpersonal relationships from the "vertical" perspective.

Youth: You mean that I even use vertical relationships to understand my friends?

Philosopher: That's right. Even if it is not understood according to the relationship between superiors or subordinates, there will be ideas such as "Mr. A is better than me, and Mr. B is not as good as me", "I should listen to Mr. A's advice, but not Mr. B" or "The agreement with Mr. C can be