Philosopher: From the perspective of Adler's psychology, the answer is very simple: first of all, only one side can be done with others, and a horizontal relationship should be established. It should start from here.

Young man: Please don't underestimate me! I also have friends! A good horizontal relationship can be established with them.

Philosopher: However, you have established a vertical relationship with your parents or superiors, as well as juniors or others.

Young man: Of course, this should be treated differently. Everyone is like this.

Philosopher: This is a very important point. Is it to establish a vertical relationship? Or establish a horizontal relationship? This is a lifestyle problem. People are not flexible enough to improvise and use their own lifestyle separately, mainly because "it is impossible to be equal to this person, because they have a hierarchical relationship with this person".

Youth: Do you mean that you can only choose one of vertical and horizontal