Separate your own "life topics" from others.

Philosopher: For example, there is a child who doesn't like to learn, doesn't listen to classes, doesn't do homework, and even forgets his textbooks at school. So, if you were a parent, what would you do?

Young man: Of course, I will try my best to let him learn! I go to tutoring classes, hire tutors, and sometimes I may even pull my ears. This is the responsibility and obligation of parents. In fact, this is how I grew up - if I can't finish my homework of the day, my parents won't let me have dinner.

Philosopher: Well, let me ask you one more question. Forced to study by this kind of compulsory means, do you finally like learning?

Youth: It's a pity that I didn't like learning. It's just for the study of school or exams.