Nurturing, connecting, and integrating are the three core qualities of love  

The modern view of love is a highly romantic one. While it often speaks in terms of such things as warmth and caring, what is frequently being conveyed is a need for a lover who meets one's own selfish needs

Code is my canvas  | AI art IS art | the future of art is not set in stone | Uriel Avalos | linktr.ee/robotandkid

Indeed. When I posted that "Discipline is the deepest form of self love" there is in that the ability to have selfless love because alot of our suffering comes from letting our ego take over. 

Discipline means nurturing yourself over selfish short term whims. This can be extended to others.