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What do you do when you're called sir? 

I've just turned that into a non-gender way of trying to address someone respectfully, so don't correct them. 

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Would be nice if all genders were automatically included together for "sir", but assuming that that's true might be missing an opportunity to say, btw people who aren't men come here too. whaddaya think?

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discord is usually the culprit for me too :)

I tend to laugh and shake my head. The only people I tease about it are those I am close to and should know better 

It just happened yesterday when I was answering support tickets on discord.

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It might have been fatigue that made me kinda say fuck it, sir is genderless, which doesn't really help.

i suspect it is different for me but i find it highly disrespectful and am really fatigued of correcting ppl

I’m nonbinairy so it’s honestly a mix of sir vs maam, most of the time people are just trying to be polite imo

I don’t think strangers care about me enough to intentionally disrespect me, and if they are trying to be disrespectful they’d call me something a lot worse than “sir” 😭