You only go to Andrea Bocelli concerts with the people you already see yourself spending a future together. For memories you will always cherish together and a look at the south african concert the girls opted going with thier fathers. It's not like going to a maporisa and kabza perfomance where you'd rather forget the whole weekend you'd spend doing God knows what (mischief and debauchery).

The only competition you need to win to be number one in her heart is her first love and that's her father then have to come to terms with the fact that her heart can accomodate both of you.