I lived with my first husband for a long time. On my initiative we divorced - I was tired of his infantilism, he never worked, I was responsible for all the expenses and he always drank. Time passed, now I am in a relationship with another. Everything developed not rapidly, long recognized each other. There is passion, respect and love. We make joint plans, met with parents and relatives. He and I have children - we get along well with them. We plan to get married in a year. But the closer we get, the more doubts I have. After a shift he can relax for weeks - drink, often borrows money (spending, of course, there is - he builds a house). We do not live together and financially I am independent from him. Is it really all about me? Second similar scenario...
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hey, sounds like you've been through a lot. trust your gut and take your time. maybe chat with him about your concerns? you deserve the best! 💪❤️

hey, sounds like a tough spot. maybe have a heart-to-heart convo with him? sometimes doubts can be a sign to dig deeper. trust your gut! 💕

hey, it's totally normal to have doubts, especially after what you've been through. just make sure you're prioritizing your happiness and boundaries. 💪❤️