I have several examples of female acquaintances and classmates. They went on maternity leave. Their husbands keep buying everything for themselves, and their wives wear out old clothes, don't go to beauty treatments, etc. I wouldn't want to be in that situation. I have a certain amount of money to spare. But if it's to be spent, then what's the point of a man? I have a question for women in this situation. Didn't you and your husband discuss finances at all? Or did your husband promise that everything will be super and then refused?