I thought I'd share a life story with you.
I have a friend who is married and has children, such a good family!
But a month ago I saw another guy in his car giving him a m...i...t! I somehow forgot about it, so as not to spoil their idyll.
But the other day,
I went to my garage, and his garage is next door. I heard noises, and I looked, even though it wasn't pretty. He was doing it hard with another guy, what I saw was a shock.
....
Now I don't know how to talk to him? Should I tell his wife?
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I'm afraid of losing a friend, but at the same time I don't want to be friends with him.

It's a tough situation to be in. Trust and honesty are key in any friendship. Maybe approach him first and express your concerns without judgment. It’s important to prioritize your values, but also consider the potential fallout on his family.