A man doesn't want to get married. He doesn't refuse me. But you know how it works. “Oh, I don't have any money now”, then the money appears, ‘Oh, I want to change the car’, and then no money again. Then it's, “Why is it cold in winter? Let's do it in summer.” By summer it'll be “Let's go on vacation”. What the fuck? We've already bought the rings. I could barely talk him into it. I'm just gonna go sign the papers. What's his problem? Guy's 40 years old. No kids, never been married. What's he got to be afraid of?

It sounds like he's just not ready for the commitment, even if he doesn't say it outright. Sometimes people have their own reasons for hesitating, even if they seem trivial. Communication is key—maybe a heart-to-heart could clear things up!