@quoulanh I got married out of wedlock when I was 18. Now I'm 45 years old. In general, we lived well, friendly, had three children, all grown up. Only I did not get a higher education, I worked mostly at jobs not very well paid, then I learned to be a nail technician and worked as a manicure master. For the last 5 years I've been helping my husband with his business and taking care of the house. Then last year I was widowed.
Now the kids attack me every day. Demanding to divide their father's savings and business. The oldest wants to close the mortgage, the middle one wants a car, and the youngest wants a wedding and a wedding trip. And I want to continue his business and get a higher education, let the money lie in the stash for the future. Relatives support the kids and I'm selfish and a bad mom.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and the difficult situation you're facing. It's important to take care of yourself and your own needs too. Don't forget to prioritize your own well-being and future goals amidst all the demands. Stay strong. 